Inner Child

Ever wondered, “Why is it that I keep attracting exactly the kind of people in my life that I cannot stand”  or “Why is it that I cannot seem to be doing anything right” or some such feeling….well actually it’s time to wake up and well do smell the coffee by all means HOWEVER  more importantly please look into the mirror. I say this gently because when I started my journey into expansion, I also came to this stage where I had to look within because all that was around just stopped making any sense. All answers felt half-baked or totally off the charts…I mean how is it possible that everytime a certain kind of people or events are picked to present themselves conveniently (not so for me) in my life like clockwork. No matter how hard I tried to make sense of it, well sense became the proverbial “lost cause” till I came across this lady who said….”Well have you thought that you attract these people and events into your life” and even though it felt like a bulldozer flattened me out..something inside me said….”Well, it has to be that…isn’t it..I meant how else could they be programmed to happen so precisely?” so some long years ago…..I started my journey……I have to tell you folks that the initial shock is the hardest to take………..As I completely believe that there are no accidents, if you are reading this today…it is because you are ready to start your journey of changing your life and actually understanding your power of creating every event in your life.

We all have this inner child inside of us who actually impacts or rather creates all events of our Adult life. If we have grown up feeling criticised or controlled too much then we will attract people who will continue to criticize us or control us. It is because in this case we create a belief that we are not good enough or intelligent enough to make our own decisions hence we attract situations or people who create exactly this reality. Please understand that at an intellectual level we might be blissfully unaware of this phenomenon. We might have a fair share of animosity against such situations or people however it is like being trapped in a vicious circle till we realize that WE HAVE THE POWER to actually change this painful reality.

The funny part is that even our defense mechanisms are actually created like this; we create the facades of anger or create shells because somewhere while growing up we found out that works for us in some way to escape a harsh word or a particularly unwelcome scenario. So next time when we are faced with a similar situations, our body goes into an auto-pilot mode and creates a reality which is familiar to our inner child and which is safe…well pseudo safe.

Once we understand the deep inherent connection between the current state of our life and the state of our inner child….we can start working on improving that relationship.

Once you come to this stage, I will recommend you to work with a guide or an Inner Child Counselor as sometimes the memories can be traumatic or disturbing to an extent that it becomes difficult to work on it by yourself.

One thing that I can tell you is when you start connecting with your Inner Child, life would be more beautiful than it is now.

Just to start you off…..everyday spend a little time to close your eyes, connect to that child within and tell that child all…literally everything that you’ve ever wanted to hear………shower her/him with all the praise, love, approval and appreciation………….and even if you cannot connect immediately with your Inner Child right away….trust me it’s ok….it’s your intent which will do the trick.

Just tell that beautiful child inside of you who is actually “YOU”…………I love and Approve of “YOU”………………

Happy days all of you ❤ !!

Love and Light

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When We “Release”, We “Receive”

While I was doing an Angel Card reading today, what came to me were these words: “When you Release you Receive”…..”Beautiful” is what I thought it was. You cannot possible buy something new for yourself if your wardrobe is filled to capacity. You have to give things away for more things to come in. Likewise if you are already filled with thoughts and ideas, how can you make space for new ideas or thoughts to come in?

Best things in life happen when we surrender yet this innate need to control is what drives us. It is so difficult for us to fathom the fact that when we worry, we create more of it, when we panic we create more of it……. as they say…..energy flows where attention goes. I have met people who intellectually believe in the power of manifestation or what most people refer to as “Law of Attraction” however the essence of the concept is missing. For creation to take place, absolute belief is the base; when we question ourselves or ridicule ourself within, we are manifesting what we do not want. Universal laws are without prejudice or bias; it’s like the “Law of Gravity” where whoever falls from above………….falls; whether you are a life saver or a life taker…if you fall…you fall.

When we are worried about getting late, wanting to be on time would not help us; what we are thinking about the most is what we are creating whether we do it consciously or unconsciously hence we get late. The funny thing is after that happens we find people saying ” being positive doesn’t help” when in reality they were constantly worried about how late they were getting so those thoughts created the reality of getting late.